WHAT KILLS RELATIONSHIPS

WHAT KILLS RELATIONSHIPS

*Refusal to let go past relationships*

This is one of the most challenging issues for most of the youth in courtship. Most of the young people fail to understand that they are now with another person and it is time to move on. They continue to communicate with their ex-boyfriends or girlfriends. They continue to show intimacy with their past relationships.  This is playing with fire. Refusal to let go of your ex is jeopardizing and injurious the current relationship. It is actually an insult to your partner.  It will make you lose focus needed to build that particular relationship. It pollutes the trust needed in any relationship.

Some even go to the extent of comparing their present partner with their ex. Instead of focusing on good of the current courtship relationship they make references to the ‘good’ experiences they had with their ex. This will mean that you still have feeling for that past relationship. Good news is that it is time to move on.

*John Museredzo* is a motivational speaker, author and life coach. Send feedback to motivatebusinessworld@gmail.com